Living by the sunshine

  Your way, on your time!  NO RUSH!   Have you ever felt pressured into something? Maybe into a certain career path because it's what would help you “fit in”.   Or maybe, you're 50 finishing your bachelors or you had to pause your career because you decided to start a family (or let's be honest maybe one night you had too much to drink or got carried away … happens to the best of us ).   but it is important to always remember everyone is on a different timeline and you know what?    That perfectly fine!    Your life is a masterpiece! Some artist work a little faster, some mess up halfway and have to start all over again or they can work with the accident and later create a piece of work (life), they can be even more proud of.    Trust me, if you ask 18-year-old me “what would you be doing in five years?” I would have said, in some other state than Miami or managing a Department with the credit union I used to work for.   Probab...

  11/11/20  💫    As previously mentioned, Terri Savelle-Foe, preaches on being your own motivation in other words being your on personal cheerleader, which means, you would be the only motivation you EVER need.         I know, that sounds weird for my guy readers, but I hope you get the point.        Knowing that you are favored by God or by the universe (you decide), to go after your dreams, wants and desires. Should be enough for you and encourage you NEVER to look back and go after your perfect life. Now, I know that doesn’t always happen, but it’s worth a try at least.              & Another thing...   Stop playing your problems and or personal issues on God!      Do you know exactly what you need and is he doesn’t put something someone in the way it’s simply because you have something better coming your way eventually, be pa...

November 16,2020           Reasons why we make excuses? è    We feel like it's not the right decision è     We are certain there's no point in trying ~pre-determined failure~ è     We have tried it before but, it didn't work out as expected Whatever your reason might be ... It's holding you back from your ability to be your best self And to reach your highest potential. And don't sell yourself short!!! You might have the idea just going through your life as someone earning minimum wage with two weeks of vacation per year… But what you don't know ...  Is what God or the higher power (I'm not here to judge), Have already set aside for you. Declare it to be yours. That which required endless Planning and working magic two said you up for your highest potential come to live your OWN Dreams, to celebrate the little things in life.  In a video, I once saw, I’ll link it down below (If I'm able to find it) she explained ...

January 23, 2015       What makes you, YOU? While reading ahead in my 5-year journal... I found an interesting question that I do not know exactly how to answer it...  (WHAT MAKES "YOU", YOU?) Okay so I might want to start by saying or realizing  Who am I?  and not just the exterior part of me, that I display on social media, or... the part of me I let my members see.  But, who am I? REALLY??? I am an independent young girl who loves to work hard and hurts too easily. I am weak, but, I am also strong. I am open to change; but, I still prefer everything to stay like it is. I am dedicated, but still lazy; and like to postpone everything until the last minute. (still true now...) I love seeing the bright side in EVERY situation.  But, my mind usually comes up with the worse situation.  I am friendly, yet a loner.  I am open-minded yet hard-headed. I am an oxymoron within myself & couldn...

                              “His just, not that into you.” Or “She”  AND... it's better like that.        Have you ever been in a relationship COMPLETELY and UTTERLY in love with a person, I’m talking about risking everything, just to be with that person (newly started career, that is going really well, School, friends and even family.      You even pass up the opportunity to continue on oh really good relationship with another really good guy, at the end of the story this relationship almost ended up killing me ( LITERALLY ). After, all of that happens, you realize you could’ve been with someone else; Or better yet, ALONE .  Written May 18,2016...  DON'T LET THIS BE YOU!   NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR SOMETHING THEY COULD HAVE DONE DIFFERENTLY!!!      My lovely readers! I asked you to please, put yourself first. That applies to all except my parent-r...