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Life After TBI: Andy’s Powerful Survivor Story (YouTube video)

  🌻 Surviving and Thriving: Andy’s Story of Strength, Resilience, and Hope There are moments in life that change everything. Moments that divide our lives into “before” and “after.” For many survivors, that moment comes unexpectedly—through illness, injury, or trauma. But what happens next is where the true story begins. In my latest interview, I had the honor of sitting down with Andy, a survivor whose journey is a powerful reminder of just how resilient the human spirit can be. 💛 A Story That Needed to Be Told Andy’s story is not just about survival—it’s about perseverance, courage, and the daily decision to keep going, even when life looks completely different than it once did. Like many survivors, Andy has faced challenges that most people never see or fully understand. The physical, emotional, and mental toll of navigating life after a traumatic experience can feel overwhelming. But through it all, Andy continues to push forward, showing us what strength really looks l...

INSIDE MY MIND- My take on this year’s halftime chaos?

    Good time of day!!! I hope all of you are doing amazing!!       I’ll be honest — I like country music , and I was curious about the alternative halftime show that TPUSA put together with Kid Rock and other country artists.  Sooo, I personally enjoyed the  Brantley Gilbert, Lee Brice, and Gabby Barrett sets.... But, Kid Rock hasn't been a "kid" for years. Looking through his Youtube, I only know one of his songs .... 'All summer long' . I'm talking TPUSA thought they would be successful with a Country music line-up... So, it's clear to say the whole line-up was just sorta out of their lane.  & Many others felt similarly: critics and fellow musicians called the performance underwhelming or even embarrassing , and technical issues like syncing problems were widely talked about online. I have heard that people got paid $200.00 for going and participating as the audience... I feel as though TPUSA would have to spot whoever watched it onli...

Entering the final month of this decade in my life...

Good time of day beauties! & With that… the last year of my 20s will be over in a little over a month. This decade for me has been filled with beautiful moments, good times, hard times, and seasons that tested me beyond measures. My 20s were not at all what I imagined they would be. I remember sometime in my late teens I had planned everything out: I would get my bachelors by 20, my masters by 24. Sometimes life doesn’t work by our schedule. Sometimes we have to just let go of who we thought we were going to be to walk into our ideal, destined-to-be self. As this decade comes to a close, I’m not looking back at it with regret, but with gratitude. To both myself pre-TBI & the version of me who survived what she didn’t think she could. If my 20s taught me something, it is to never give up on yourself. It taught me that community is very important as well as keeping the light kind. Your stories can give hope to others going through the same situations. Trust me, as I enter my 30s,...

Entrando en el último mes de esta década de mi vida...

  ¡Buen día, bellezas! Y con esto… el último año de mis veintes terminará en poco más de un mes. Esta década para mí ha sido llena de momentos hermosos, buenos tiempos, tiempos difíciles y etapas que me pusieron a prueba más allá de lo imaginable. Mis veintes no fueron para nada lo que imaginé que serían. Recuerdo que en mi adolescencia lo tenía todo planeado: tendría mi licenciatura a los 20 y mi maestría a los 24. A veces la vida no funciona según nuestro horario. A veces simplemente tenemos que soltar a quien pensábamos que íbamos a ser para convertirnos en nuestra versión ideal, nuestra versión destinada. Al cerrar esta década, no miro hacia atrás con arrepentimiento, sino con gratitud. Tanto a la "yo" de antes de mi lesión cerebral (TBI), como a la versión de mí que sobrevivió a lo que pensó que no podría. Si mis veintes me enseñaron algo, es a nunca rendirse con uno mismo. Me enseñó que la comunidad es muy importante, así como mantener viva la luz interior. Tus historia...

2026: The year of NEW.

  Good time of day!!!  HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! I hope you all had an amazing time! I also hope you find yourself ready to grow and become the best version of yourself this year!!  Let’s start with this reminder: beginning the year with a positive mindset matters—but if you haven’t quite found your groove yet, that’s okay. You still have 360 days left to try, adjust, restart, and get it right. There is no deadline on becoming who you’re meant to be. And if you ever need a cheerleader—someone to encourage you, push you, and remind you of your strength—I am here. 😁✨ Before we go any further, I want to ask you something— When you picture this year coming to an end, how do you want to feel? Stronger? More at peace? Proud of how far you’ve come? More aligned with who you truly are? Sometimes the most important changes begin with simply asking ourselves the right question. For me personally, I’ve declared this year the year of “NEW.” New beginnings. New goals. New courage. New ...

The Art of Hustling: Finding Sunshine Edition

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       They say hustling is an art — and they’re right. It’s not just about working hard; it’s about believing in something so deeply that you refuse to let it fade into the background. For me, that “something” is my support group — a safe space where people with neuro-injuries and alike can come together, share their lived experiences with one another, and to know they’re not alone.      Hosting this group hasn’t been easy. But I should be spreading the word, creating flyers, talking to people and reaching out to anyone who might need a little hope every day. It’s a real hustle — not for money, not for fame, but for connection and the possibility of growth both personal for each individual as a community, a ‘Finding Sunshine’ support community.      The art of hustling is about resilience. It’s waking up each morning knowing that what you’re doing matters, even if it feels like the world hasn’t noticed yet. It’s keeping your energy up w...

The importance of looking your best... But, more importantly feeling your best.

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Good (time of day are reading this),        I hope you are all living your best lives! Before, we get into what I am planning to talk about; if you could please make sure to Like and Follow this blog? As well as, subscribe to my Youtube channel   The Importance of Looking Your Best…  But, More Importantly, Feeling Your Best    We currently live in a world where appearances seem to matter a lot, like more than personalities....    Social media, fashion trends, and the pressure to “look perfect” often make us believe that looking good is the key to happiness and to making people want to be around you and embrace you and your company .     While, taking pride in your appearance is important, there’s something far more powerful than a polished outfit or a flawless hairstyle— feeling your best from the inside out . Why Looking Your Best Matters Looking your best isn’t about vanity—it’s about confidence. When you take ti...