How to stop comparing yourself to someone else in 5 easy steps...
Doing this would be a lifechanging skill…
For the better!!!
As with most posts I write; I'm writing to you guys but deep, deep, deeeeep down inside, I am writing to myself (That makes sense, right?). So, let me be the first to admit to you that, as giddy as I am, I used to be the first to secretly compare myself to other girls (Instagram models, Kim Kardashian’s sister Kendall and Kylie, pretty much any girls I. could relate to in the same age group and such).
But, this horrific, nearly live-ending accident had a somewhat positive outcome on me in that.
PLEASE EXCUSE MY FRENCH IN THE NEXT SENTENCE.
LEARN HOW TO SIMPLY NOT A FUCK.
There’s a book on the subject, I have never personally read it, but I would love to.
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck
Although, it goes against my mental view point of having a positive outlook on life. It does highlight that we do not need ANYTHING
in order to be happy… (and just like that this post gained another person of interest) … No names mentioned but, if you have to think twice about something, you probably don’t need it.
HALLMARK CHRISTIMAS CARD MOMENT coming…
“You, your person, is enough for the people that are supposed to be in your life”
The right people aren’t going to need shinny wheels or red bottom heels to be with you.
MAYBE I NEED TO RAISE MY STANDARDS…
But, I (as almost everyone) should be happy to see another day,
It might not be your PERFECT DAY… But you have the possibility to make it better and that’s more than enough.
BETTER DAYS ARE TO COME
(I am not being sponsor by Hallmark)
😂😂😂
So… 5 steps… Here we go, got sidetracked…
1. Analyze your situation and realize that others might have
gotten horrible news whether it is health related, family related or work related.
2. You are STILL alive, and you can make the changes you desire to experience in your life…
3. YOU ARE YOUR OWN LIMITSETTER
(look at me, doctors told everyone I love, and care for that I was not going amount too much after my accident, and just to think I got accepted to the Stempel College of Public Health and Social Work, and have goals to surpass that accomplishment)
4. I would also say, delete Instagram and Social Networks but, I can’t since you can always find me at @BeatrizPilarr. But if you have that amount of self-control, go for it, good for you!
5. Last but not least, one for sure way to make yourself feel better is to, work on yourself.
REMEMBER: You are your biggest project and you write your own life story!! Make sure it is worth a second or third read.
INFACT, WHY DON’T YOU WRITE A BEST SELLER FOR YEARS TO COME?
BIRTHDAY SHOUT OUT !
TREVOR V.!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 🥳🎉🥳
STAY SAFE... 😁😉😂
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xoxo, Bea 😘😘
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I am not able to better my writing, unless you give me feedback.
Do what my 9th grade English teacher, or my ENC1102 teacher did!!
CRITICIZE ME... but nicely!!! :D