Living by the sunshine

Dealing with Change, Miami’s Growth,  and Living with Anxiety Let's face it!!! CHANGE is INEVITABLE  If you struggle with anxiety, you know how tough change can feel. How there are certain times when you have to step back and analyze LIFE; Even if, it’s something exciting happening. The unknowns can set off racing thoughts and worries. I’ve been feeling this a lot lately while watching Miami grow and transform. Everywhere I look, something is changing. A new high-rise goes up, a street I used to know looks completely different, and the pace of the city just keeps getting faster. For some people, that might feel thrilling. But for those of us who live with anxiety, it can be overwhelming. Change—even good change—can feel like losing our balance. I’ll be honest: sometimes Miami’s growth makes me feel like I’m falling behind (especially because of my injury), like I can’t keep up with everyone and everything happening around me. That’s when the anxious thoughts start: Am I a...

   Good time of day, beauties ✨                  How often have you told yourself, “I’ll start when the time is right” ?                 We wait… for the right job, the right partner, the right opportunity.                 We wait until we feel confident, prepared, or certain.                     But here’s the truth: the perfect moment doesn’t exist.                     Life is never going to pause, just so everything can line up, and hand you the ideal conditions, UNFORTUNATELY.   Waiting feels safe, but it quietly stealing time from your calling.  It convinces us that “someday” is better than “today.”              ...

  Why Autumn Fills Me with Happiness and Warmth, EVEN IN FLORIDA: Living in Florida means autumn doesn’t always look like the picture-perfect scenes of falling red and golden leaves. Our palm trees don’t change color, and the air doesn’t always bring that classic crisp chill. But, even without the dramatic shifts, autumn still fills me with happiness and warmth—and maybe that makes me appreciate it even more. For me, autumn is more of a  feeling  than a season. It’s that subtle shift in energy when the summer heat finally begins to ease up, and evenings become just a little cooler. It’s the excitement of pumpkin spice season, cozy candles, and the thought of the holidays slowly approaching. 🌻 Even without the changing leaves, I find ways to create autumn magic around me. A favorite pumpkin latte, a new cozy blanket, or the smell of cinnamon and apple candles filling the room can instantly put me in that fall mindset. 🍂 How do you bring autumn into your home when the out...

🌞 Good time of day, Sunshines!!! ✨ Happy Friday!!! ✨ Lately, I’ve been feeling uncertain about the kind of future we, as human beings, are heading toward. Shocking, right? From a religious perspective, Earth was created for us. Yet, somewhere along the way, we’ve lost many of the qualities that make us original—unique individuals. Instead, we rely on AI for almost everything: from a quick recipe, to song lyrics, to entire short stories or novels. The whole meaning of being original seems to be fading. With the overwhelming amount of voices online—blogs, YouTube videos, social media—it’s tempting to let machines decide what we say or create. Following trends often feels like the easiest solution. But here’s the thing: what kind of creator are we if everything we make is just a copy of something else? Don’t get me wrong, I’m not above asking ChatGPT to edit this post after I write it in my own words. 😉 This actually came from a conversation I had with my boyfriend the other day. We ...

The Benefits of Expanding Your Horizons Good time of day loves!!! I hope your day, better yet week is going and went great!! Today, I will be talking on why it's important to expand your horizons...    As I hope we all know, life is full of opportunities for growth but sometimes we keep ourselves in a small, comfortable bubble.  YOU KNOW THE SAVE SPOT, MOST PEOPLE LIVE IN...  It’s safe, familiar, and predictable — but it can also limit our potential.  Expanding your horizons means stepping beyond what you already know and opening yourself up to new experiences, people, and ways of thinking.  & The rewards can be life-changing. 1. Personal Growth and Self-Discovery When you try new things — whether it’s learning a skill, traveling to a new place, or joining a different social group — you discover new sides of yourself. You learn what you’re capable of, what excites you, and even what challenges you. These experiences help you grow into a stronger, mo...

Good time of day  beautiful souls, Happy Friday! ✨   I hope you're all thriving. Before diving into today’s post, please  SUBSCRIBE  to this blog and make sure to   like, share, and subscribe  to my YouTube channel:  Beatriz Pilarr . Thank you! As the week winds down, it’s easy to feel drained, distracted, or just ready to crawl into bed and forget the world. But Fridays don’t have to be just a countdown to the weekend — they can be a powerful reset button.   Whether your week was overwhelming, peaceful, or somewhere in between, I want to share 5 simple ways I use to refresh my spirit and step into the weekend with a lighter heart and a clearer mind.   🌿 1. Take a 10-Minute Nature Break   Step outside. Listen to the wind, feel the sun on your skin, and take a few deep breaths. Whether you sit under a tree or just peek out the window, reconnecting with nature can do wonders for your mood. Even bees do it — they stop on flowers, brea...